Guys and gals, you frown and ask “tips on how to
flirt?!” Don’t take my word for it, ask the popular flirt who has
mastered the art of flirting. You wonder why they are always surrounded by
people and have so many friends? Well, here’s why:
The most
important thing about flirting is that the object of your affection should also
be the object of your attention. Focus outward. Don’t be self-absorbed.
You need to communicate your feelings without coming on too strong. Show
how pleased you are to see him/her. If you aren't acquainted, use a lingering
glance or slight smile.
Looks speak about your attitude. A good posture,
with relaxed shoulders helps send out subconscious signals.
A touch can
convey a lot, which is why it has to be done properly. If you are a woman,
lightly touch the guy’s arm, hand or shoulder. If you are a man, the back
or shoulders are your areas.
Use your eyes to say what’s in your
heart. Look into his/her eyes a little longer than necessary, while smiling
lightly all the time.
Everybody needs to feel good. And nothing works as
well as compliments. Try to give out genuine ones or risk them suspecting that
you are up to something.
Body language communicates even better than
words. Make sure your movements are gentle and directed towards him/her. Make
sure that your body movements don’t convey anything negative, don’t
gesticulate too much.
Yes, feeling sexy helps you flirt. However, sexy is
not the same as flirting. Keep your seductive side subtle, if you over do it, it
will kill the fun.
Notice how the best flirts are also the best dancers.
You got it! Learn to be graceful in your dance moves. You can practice at home
even when you are alone.
Finally, the most important part — your
smile. It gives out positive vibes. Add to that an interesting conversation
(what can be more interesting than getting the other person to talk about
himself/herself), and you’ve done it.