truth number one: the world is made up of just two kinds of women: the sexy kind and the non-sexy kind.

truth number two: the first kind get all the men, get all the fun, get all they want from life.

so, you don't have much of a choice, do you? not if you want to discover or rediscover romance and passion, and want to keep the flames burning bright. and you know what? it doesn't take too much time or effort to become a sexy susie (ss)...

* ditch the tent-style clothes and all your loose and baggy stuff. even if you don't have the perfect figure and can't wear body-hugging outfits, find clothes that skim your figure, and highlight your good aspects. besides, guys love a woman with all her curves in the right places.

* try a striptease for a change, to send your bedroom temperature into the stratosphere - take a tip or two from jamie lee curtis in the film 'true lies'. also get hold of some sexy scarves and try your hand at a bit of bondage. tie him up and drive him crazy. too daring? no way. and then, when you have him at your mercy, you can do all the things you've been dreaming of, but never actually tried.

* just because you're married, it doesn't mean you can't go away for a dirty weekend. pack some of your new lingerie and coax him into going away for a two-day break. promise to make it worth his while once you get there...
aman chadha, a jabalpur-based businessman has this to say, "my wife and i plan a monthly rendezvous out of town; nothing like quality time spent away from our house and kids!" ...