Tupperware
parties are
out;
it's now
time to get comfortable with the new let's-make-happy merchandise of the 21st
century - the sex toy. Across the world, women are waking up to the need to take
the achievement of sexual pleasure into their own hands. And as part of a trend
whose time has come - in the forward-thinking US of A, at least - sex stores
like The Mood in Philadelphia are creating a battery of trained sex
representatives who teach women how to use their toys. The result: Toygasm
Parties.
How
It Works
A
hostess gathers together her girl friends and books a party with a
representative from a sex store. The rep shows up and brings with her a suitcase
of massage products, sex toys and sex aids.
The
First Hour
You
talk. Since everyone knows why they're there, you're bound to talk sex. In
response, the representative usually opens up her bagful of tricks and begins a
45-minute demonstration on how toys like the Rabbit Habit and The Butterfly
work. By the end of the hour, you can be sure that your questions will be
answered. You will know, in explicit detail, where your G-spot is, how to
reach it and what to do once you get there. But remember, that's just
theory...
Getting
Some Action
You
can buy a starter kit from your representative or pick the toy you've had your
eye on. Now that you're armed with knowledge and your favourite toy, use it!
Practice is the only way to perfection and this skill is no
different.
The
Results
Aside
from the obvious orgasm, you've just created the perfect sex therapy group -
your friends! Toygasm parties are bound to bring you and your pals closer. Once
you've broken down the walls of discomfort around the subject of masturbation,
you'll be able to troubleshoot the problems between you and your toy, with your
friends.
Just
Play!
The
market is flooded with toys from beads to waterproof vibrating ducks that can be
used in the bath. We decided to keep it simple and introduce you to a few
sure-shot ways to get results. Look for these toys and more on www.baazee.com,
but take a bit of advice from Femina girls who know - it's almost futile going
gaga over the stuff on international websites - the customs will seize your toy
and they won't give it back without a note from your doc! The better way is to
buy them abroad and rehearse a whole load of explanations to be delivered
straight-faced to the guys at the airport here - but that's another
story!
What
are the hot picks? Go back to the basics! The G-Spot Stimulators
are
action-packed dildos are bent at the head to tickle your love button. They're
simple toys, but be warned, they will only work for a woman who already knows
how to get what she wants. If you've never had an orgasm, one from the Clitoral
Stimulator series is the toy to start with... The Butterfly, a deceptively
innocent looking pink toy, is worn over the clitoris and held in place by an
unobtrusive elastic harness. Wear it during sex and use the attached remote to
control the time and intensity of your orgasm. Look out for rabbits, dragons and
kangaroos - the vibrator is no longer a simple wand. Known as multi-tasking
toys, these vibrators are both vaginal AND clitoral stimulators. But the Rabbit
Habit gets even better with beads that rotate to prompt the oft-forgotten nerve
endings at the vaginal opening...
GOT
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