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What's That Word?
Sejal Mehta

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One
of the most path-breaking plays in recent times, 'The Vagina Monologues'
finishes 100 episodes this month.
Jayati
Bhatia, one of the five protagonists in the play, cheers the way it has changed
women's lives... hers too the theme of 'The Vagina Monologues' (TVM) is to
spread the word about 'vaginas'. Why do you think it is necessary for people to
talk about it?
People,
and more so women, are so quiet about these issues.
I
don't see why. It's a part of you, isn't it? When people laugh about something,
they become more open about it. Like when you laugh at yourself, it endears you
to people. They warm up to you.
It
tells them that you know what you are all about and they accept you for who you
are. In the same way, when people talk and laugh about the issues that are
discussed in 'TVM' - women, pubic hair, orgasms, rape - they are coming out in
the open with these issues, they're sharing their psyches, their understanding
of these situations. A simple example: There's a piece on a man who loves
looking at his lover's pubic hair. Women have gone home and spoken about this
guy to their husbands... how they've never met anyone like him and that he has
such a refreshing point of view. This way, men and women discuss their innermost
feelings, topics they've never discussed before... and once couples do that,
they're at peace.
Do
you think women directors bring anything extra to the table by the simple virtue
of being women?
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We
talked about how as adolescents, we were confused about leering uncles, men
brushing up against us, and the like. I am from Delhi, I have been brought up
being scared of a vagina. Really! I used to feel sorry for being a woman and
thought it was just the unfortunate 'done thing' for men to pinch me, brush up
against my breasts in busy streets. And I was always terrified. Today, if I can
talk about these and other such experiences with my friends, with you, so
openly, it means I am not scared any more. And that's what 'TVM' does for
people; it opens them up and makes them strong. Today, after knowing so much
about issues, God help anyone who tries to take advantage of me. It does happen,
but now I react. At shoots, if men act fresh or look where they're not supposed
to, I just glare and say, loud enough for everyone to hear, 'Hanji? Aap kya dekh
rahe hai? (Yes? What are you looking at?)' and watch them turn away in
embarrassment. I now question 'the done thing'.
There
was a joint performance with the original cast in Mumbai. Pakistani, American
and Indian women - all of you shared one platform?
The
stories in 'TVM' are real... they might be about women from Bosnia and Kosovo,
but their problems are universal. These issues are about every woman, all over
the world. And the commitment to spread that message became apparent when the
writer Eve Ensler, Jane Fonda and Merrisa Tomei came to India to perform with
us. When I met them at a press conference for the first time, they recognised me
because of the clips and pictures they had seen of our performances. The minute
I went in, Eve called out, "Heyyy, my moaner!' (I do a comic medley of orgasmic
moans in one piece). They didn't pose for any pictures without one of us in the
frame... because they were here to represent 'TVM' and we were the Indian faces
of the show. Two women joined us from Pakistan. They had performed at the
American embassy there. I think it's such a big deal to perform a play like this
in Pakistan. When we performed, it was magical. I was shivering with the
excitement of sharing a platform with such strong and talented women!
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