
As spirited as her songs, as emotional as the movies she sings
for, and as driven as her contemporaries, singer Sunidhi Chauhan is a Femina
Platinum Woman.
We think Sunidhi
Chauhan is a Femina Platinum Woman because:
# She’s a
workaholic and believes her music is an all-consuming passion.
"I am
nothing without my music. I wouldn’t even say it’s my voice. My
life is music. I am addicted to it. I might die if I don’t have music."
"And I never get tired of music. I’d never want to be. My work is
what keeps me alive. Apart from my husband, it’s the one thing that is
most important to me."
# When she won the Lata Mangeshkar trophy for Best Female Artiste in
1997, Sunidhi was more excited about meeting Lata Mangeshkar than
winning.
"I was euphoric that day! I had always wanted to meet her,
touch her, and feel the person who is probably the greatest inspiration to any
singer! And I cried when I did."
# She
has immense will power.
"When I was recording for
Mast
, I was supposed to initially sing
only one song. And two days before
Ruki
Ruki
was going to be recorded, I lost my voice. The doctor told me that
if I wanted to sing, I would have to keep a
maun vrath
(a vow of silence) till the
recording began. That was really tough. It meant that I couldn’t even warm
up and had to rest my voice right till the minute recording began!
At the studio, they told me they’d only record the low parts
first. I didn’t have energy for the high parts, but I recorded them in
just one take!"
# She doesn’t give up easily.
"Before
Mast
, for two years I just sat at
home. I didn’t get much work. Then I met Sonu Nigam and it was because of
him that I got to sing for
Mast
."
# She’s super
emotional and not afraid to show it.
"I think I am honest when I show my
emotions but I know it’s my weakness, too, because I have no control over
them. But I believe how will you know love if you don’t show it without
holding back?"
# She leads a transparent life.
"I am an open
book. I leave myself open to the world. The whole world knew when I married
Bobby. I have never hidden anything, never felt the need to. You only hide
things when you are afraid or ashamed."
# She’s taken some
incredibly hard decisions at a very young age.
"My family disowned me when
I married Bobby. It was not a decision I took consciously. You don’t plan
to fall in love. It just happened that way. But in the process, I lost a very
precious relationship - my sister. To say I miss her is not enough. I feel
incomplete without her. It hurts that a relationship I thought was so strong
could fall apart so easily. Perhaps, I loved her more than she loved me. How
else do I explain it?"
# She has the courage to move on.
"If I keep crying, I
can’t work. Earlier, being torn from my family would make me cry at the
drop of a hat, but now I am a lot better. I can’t be moping all my life.
I still keep calling them, but they continue to ignore me by not taking my
calls. I’ll keep trying. But I don’t cry any more."
#
She is sure of her decisions.
"I may have married early, but I know I
didn’t marry the wrong man."
# She makes friends
easily.
"I am a good judge of people. And when I like someone, I forget
all their flaws and my friendship is unconditional."