4 Where is my G-spot?
Although not all sexologists agree that this area exists in a woman's body, we believe it is there and can be stimulated for supreme pleasure. It is a soft area that is palpable, just about a third of the way up on the front wall of the vagina. It's easiest to find when you're aroused. It pulses slightly when touched with a finger, and rubbing on it can send you orbiting parallel universes! Help your man find it... you know men, they never ask for directions. You might as well show them the route!

5 Why can't I have an orgasm?
The key is to stop focusing on wanting one. Most often, women don't spend enough time on getting aroused. It can take anywhere from 20 to 60 minutes for a woman to reach climax. So, spend more time in foreplay. Also, the foundation for becoming orgasmic is masturbation. Once you learn your own natural patterns for arousing yourself and achieving the release you seek, then you can do a rerun with your sweetie. Use direct and indirect clitoral touching, fantasise and relax into the pleasure you feel. If you are worrying about not getting to the climax, you are literally stopping your own flow.

6 Where is his G-spot?
If he's found yours, you should know his, too. First try the frenulum, the sensitive spot just on the underside of the penis, where the folds of his glans (penile head) come together. It looks like the petals of a flower. This hot spot, when touched, can turn your man into putty. It's a bundle of nerve endings and is super sensitive when he is highly aroused. The second spot is the perineum, the skin around the back of the family jewels. This area is often a center of great pleasure. It's also supposed to help him stay erect longer and stall ejaculation. Rub it gently or hard during high states of arousal. The third is the prostate, but that isn't easy to access, and your man most probably won't like you to go in there.

Tip: Some men prefer a light touch on the booty, some prefer heavy pawing and others tell their lovers to stay away from the family jewels altogether. Learn what works for the two of you, then explore.